back again

Well I see that the page is getting a few hits, but not much in the way of feedback. Feel free to send a PM if you have any questions or would like something included, since this is still a part time work in progress, I am adding things as they come up.

Sometime in the next coupl eof weeks my wife will also be posting somethings to give her perspective of things.

As mentioned in my last post Getherblacked.com is one of our most common sites to check on the web. As I mentioned it is one of the most honest sites out there, as the moderators do a great job of screening and removing troublemakers and fakers. Something that anyone that has spent much time on the internet knows the web is full of. For a community site is one of the best we have found yet.

As for dating and hookups my vote has to go for
Online Booty Call mostly due to the amount of activity it sees and the options available for free. Not to mention we have had far more success than from other sites even AFF. Although the messaging is limited, as it is with all personal sites with a basic membership, the simple yes or hell no option for adding people to your list of potential booty calls, and the straight forward chat/video chat. Makes things a lot simpler.

On the subject of dating or hook up sites. One of another series of frequently asked questions is how do I go about it? Now both my wife and myself have heard this asked countless times. Which altough it would seem pretty straight forward, but then given some of the things we have seen obviously it isn't.
First thing to do is sign up for a free account and see what you have for options with a basic account. When setting up the basic account take the time to asnwer all of the relevant questions honetly, don't worry too much about elaborating too mcuh on the profile till you know you will be keeping it. Then do a profile search to see how many active members there are in your region. If there are very few members or very few in your surrounding area you will probably not have much luck on the site. Once you find a good site upload a good face photo of yourself or significant other. If you are not comforatble with having a photo direclty associated with your profile then set it for a by request if the site allows it. Keep in mind that profiles with photos will generatte a lot more activity than those that don't. Most sites also allow you to set up photo albums that are either public or only available to people in your network along with intro recordings video or voice. Bottom line the more there is of you the higher yor odds.
Now that you have decided to keep the profile it is also a good time and put in more detailed information both about yourself and what you are looking for. Do not be afraid to be brutally honest! the more honest you are the better things will go. That does not however mean you still won't come accross your share of idiiots that can't read, best advise here just ignore them.
From here out it is pretty basic. Log into the account everyday or ever couple of days. Search for members in your area, respond to new requests, and above all be honest.

past due update

Well so much for time flying when you are having fine.  It has been almost 2 months since my last post on here, and care of some not so fun real life issues that time has just flown past.

Over the last two months there hasn't been too much time for any recreational fun at all, unfortunately.  However we have both spent some time on a site we found recently http://www,getherblacked.com/  and if anything the time we have both spent talking to members and couples on there reinforces the main reason for starting this blog.  As online communities go the moderators do a pretty damned good job weeding out the dumb shits, fakes, wannabes, etc.  They have a great community over there with, as the name suggests, the primary purpose of introducing white women to interracial sex.  If you are looking for some personal chat time to ask questions or something a little kinkier this is definitely the place.

There are so many variations to this lifestyle it can get a little confusing, and sometimes I think some people get a little confused about what part is fantasy, what part is reality, what part is role playing, and what part is very serious.  Now I am not going to knock anyone persons particular pleasure, but there are times when something either really cracks us up or rocks us back as being way overboard.  One big rule is know what you want and what your limits are and be clear and firm on them, if you are open to trying something new then be clear on a when you want to stop if it gets too uncomfortable.